enigineering life....to be or not to be??

           As this is my first blog and as the title itself pretend many things i m not going to write nothing different than every engineering student write or feels. In one of the blockbuster movie "3 idiots" engineering life has been visualized perfectly, actually movie taught us many things but in reality it is very difficult to implement what we learn from the movie. Every engineer student has a one friend friend circle close to the heart ... to those friend we share each and every moment of our life from our crush to our boyfriend ... from being in relationships to breakups.. from our failures to our grand grand success.. from our depression to our happiness we almost share a life with those friends . I have a same friends to whom i share my almost life we call our group as "BACKBENCHERS"... One day we are having conversation about our future or we can say we are discussing about what we really want to do in our life seriously we want to be a engineer and serve an any reputed IT firm or really we want to do what we feel we must do. and we come to the conclusion that first we will go for an companies and then we will do what we feel. But the question why we are going for the companies if we are not interested  and yes the answer comes the same because our parents want that we  must placed at any company so that in their office or in relatives they can stand with pride that" yes yes my daughter is also doing a job in this this company" I am not saying that our parents are wrong or there expectation from us wrong but the problem is many of us did not have  courage to share their dreams with parents .
                         Many engineers have an ability to paint a world with their imagination , Many engineers have an ability to sing a song and make a huge fan followings like "Arijit singh " and "A.R REHMAN" many of us have an ability to be a best political leader and bring a revolution again, Many of us has an ability to establish their own business and be the next "Ratan Tata" for India ,many of us has an ability to be the best IAS officer,many of us have an ability to explore the world , Many of us could be the best manager and yes of course many of us have an ability to design a best software and as we ourself know our potential
but the question is how many painters has succeed ? , how many engineers are political leaders today? how many engineer businessmen  are there.......... Guyz its time to think we are best at what and try to be responsible for our own carrier .
Once the John Lenin said that "LIFE IS WHAT HAPPENS TO US WHILE WE ARE BUSY IN MAKING OTHER PLANS FOR OUR LIFE" and  its true  at least we must have try to know our-self what potential the engineers of India have. I am a simple girl having average marks but when we had a discussion about  our future it really feels that at-least we must give our-self a chance to prove our-self and that's all i wanted to share my thought about the real situation of engineering students .